If a guy knows that having this talk will hurt and upset you, or if he feels guilty that the sparks have fizzled out on his end, he may just keep quiet and hope you figure things out on your own.“Some guys just don’t know how to let someone down,” Dale says. I don’t look forward to breaking things off with someone because more often than not, I’m not sure how attached they are.
“Never, and I do mean ever, will you meet his parents or any significant member of his family whose opinion he values,” Dr. “A guy has no interest in having that conversation with his mother or father about who you are and ‘where this is going’ unless he’s absolutely sure it’s heading for something more long-term.” Sometimes we may feel like we need a “transitional person” to help us move safely from one relationship to the next.
Still, it sucks to realize the guy you thought had boyfriend potential was simply using you to get over someone else.
If you hear your guy saying things like, ‘I’m not sure I’m ready yet,’ or, ‘I’m not saying never, but’…
then pay attention.” We absolutely hate it when guys do the fade-out thing, but letting a girl know he’s just not that into her is a difficult situation for all parties involved.
Sometimes it seems as though he never stops talking about his ex or hating on other women in general.