Reassure her that your past is history and that you want to spend your time getting to know her instead. Turn off your phone There’s nothing more annoying than phones ringing whilst trying to spend quality time out with friends, and it’s just as irritating on a date. Yes, in films they always leave it a couple of days to contact each other, but this is 2016.
Don’t just put it on silent or vibrate, as you can still become distracted. If she knows that you’ve turned your phone off to focus entirely on the date, she’ll appreciate you’re taking the time to engage with her fully. Offer to pay Things have shifted and most women will assume that they are paying for their share of the bill. If you don’t contact her within a couple of days, you’ll seem like you couldn’t be bothered, or didn’t enjoy the date.
Don’t worry, this doesn’t mean you need to wear a full tuxedo, but having a shower, shave, using aftershave and putting on something suitable will help you impress your date and get you off to a good start.
Yes, you should never pretend to be someone that you’re not, but a girl might like to see that you take pride in your appearance.
Plus, as dating can be a daunting experience, help cut through those nerves by arranging to meet up in familiar territory. Although, maybe avoid your normal Saturday night pub, as bumping into your mates could be a little distracting on your date. Be confident Women value confidence highly when it comes to choosing a guy.