December-May is always going to be looked at in a different light than May-December; so unless you can ignore others’ opinions about your relationship with a younger man, you’ll be out of luck.
If you’re a woman who has insecurity about aging (Okay, who doesn’t?
And since it’s likely he’s in a different stage of his life (just beginning to establish his career, getting to know himself, and possibly not yet ready to make a long-term commitment) and you’re beyond that point, it can be a dealbreaker for a potential relationship.
Ultimately, in this scenario, being younger impacts his values.
And since we believe a match made in heaven is based on common values, you may be setting yourself up to be in a mismatch from the get-go.
However, as long as you’re both open and honest with each other and have discussed your needs, wants, expectations and values…then go for it.
In order for the relationship to thrive, you must find places in the relationship where you can be in your feminine.