The advice that you give or get could make all the difference in the world.
If you are trying to meet a guy and consider a serious relationship with him, you need to know what you want.
This will help you narrow the field of eligible men.
Let me tell you when two single people of the opposite sex meet, even for coffee, it is a date.
They are meeting to consider if they would be good mates and want to make babies together.
It makes us desperate enough to look outside ourselves for someone to rescue and save our lives in every sense of the word. Then when they are in their 30s they want to find this last hope guy. Girls should be desperate and lonely in their 20s, We guys are. And like the Poet Rilke says Love is the work for which all other work is but preparation. To be alone feels like 100, no 1000 cold daggers stabbing you deep in your heart. This is nature tell you to go out there and find your other half. I talk to Eastern European girls who have their Ph D’s and are super successful directors of large companies.