Reality Check: When you refuse to speak up, it'll only be the luck of the draw if you find a man who's emotionally mature enough, reckless enough, or psychic enough, to provide exactly you what you want.That's why it's so important to know exactly what your dating requirements are, and communicate them in language even a man can understand.
If any of these ring true, you need to get up to date on Cyber Flirting! But without having the real secrets to being in control of the experience, you could potentially wind up more overwhelmed and disappointed that you were before you started!
The typical male has no reason to believe that being an indefinite boyfriend is actually a problem. Men love No Time-Frame Dating because if you fall for it, they don't have to worry about competing for you with other (hot) men.
You unwisely agree to open-ended monogamy in the hopes that men will step up if you just love 'em enough.
This is like offering men an uncollateralized loan of your emotional capital.
What guy wouldn't want to keep the audition process going as long as possible if they thought they could get away with it?