In theory, online dating should be easy – browse through a catalog of photos and profiles, click on who you like, send a message and boom – start picking an outfit for your first date. Now on to the hard part…Time to start messaging some women.
When you do find one of the eligible ones, the pressure's on.
What's the best way to break the ice so they don't run away, thinking you're one of the swamp creatures?
They performed a meta-analysis of 86 psychology, sociology, computer, and behavioral studies, and compiled surprisingly specific guidelines for expert online dating.
Conversations beginning with open-ended questions consistently had the highest response rates.
Here’s an idea of a travel-related message you can quickly copy, paste, and send to every woman in that list:“It looks like you have a good sense of adventure, so tell me this: If someone were to offer you an all-expenses paid trip to anywhere in the world but you had to leave in the next hour, where would you go? Travel is one topic, you could also create a message built around cooking, swimming, dancing, reading – whatever subjects you have in common with your target woman.