Be mindful and realistic when it comes to vacations, expensive dinners, expensive gifts, and other activities that are extremely pricy.This man can’t drop his existing financial responsibilities because you want to take a trip across the world. When the time comes to meet his family and his parents, be prepared for some tough questions.If he doesn’t want to get married again and you do, there’s a huge conflict here.
You’ll definitely need to accept this man’s ex-wife, but that’s as much as you need to do.
There’s no point in digging up dirt about her or stalking her on Facebook.
You’ll also need to figure out where you fit into the picture, as it’s likely that you may one day meet his children.
This means accepting his children and understanding that trash talking their mom won’t do anyone any good.
You’ll have to be able to accept the fact that his wife will always be part of his life.