Lesson #4 Timing is everything when it comes to sharing ourselves and our “stories.” Don’t Date someone who shares every single wounded, unhealed childhood issue on a first date.
Do Date someone who asks questions showing great interest in you, while showing appropriate boundaries revealing select, relevant parts of themselves at the right moment.
I want to explore this further.” Begin with play, exploration and heart.
This is the place from which deep intimacy can be explored.
When you find this connection, this is a person worth dating.
A lasting bond is most likely to flourish if based in play, exploration, expansion, inspiration, creation and growth.
Sure ego will arise, old wounds will surface, but by the time they do there is enough soft, cushy foundation on which to land that you will do so with trust and openness.
Do Explore with a person who, while aware of their ego, is connecting with you from their essence.