What Scripture story or saint's life comes to mind that might enlighten your decision? Remind yourself that you are not on your own and that you don't have to yell and scream to get God's attention to help you in this matter.
On the contrary, remind yourself that God has a plan for you and that his plan is driven purely by love.
On the one hand, there's something to be said for spontaneity.
On the other hand, some of our choices in life require deep thought, prayer, and consideration, lest we find ourselves facing the consequences of a poor decision. Discernment is a time-honored practice in the Christian tradition.
It's good to talk to other people when making important decisions, but at some point, it is crucial to make some time to be alone with your thoughts and with God. Lay out all of the facts in front of yourself so that you can deal with the known before you delve into the unknown!