“If anything, it is taking something away from your marriage,” she says.
You have a tendency to respond to this other person in whatever way they are reacting to and a lot of dishonesty starts happening.” “Most people don’t set out to be dishonest.
They don’t set out to cheat on their spouses, but they get caught up in it, they are not emotionally mature enough to have the self-control to see it and to stop it,” she adds.
While the fantasy aspect is alluring, it can also lead to misrepresentation even without intent,” said Leslie Beth Wish, 60, a psychologist and social worker based in Sarasota, Florida, who has been counseling couples in relationships for over 30 years.
“The introduction of the Internet,” she adds, “has changed the face of what had been the traditional affair.
They don’t count because there is no one-to-one contact. While some argue how you get to investigating online sex options is important, others point to what happens once you get there as being what matters. And there he can connect up with people and talk about his fantasies,” Tessina says.